There is so much to do this time of year. Not that we don’t have full schedules already throughout the year but boy do we pack even more onto our plates during the holidays. School programs, crafts, holiday parties, baking, big meals, holiday cards, shopping, wrapping, decorating, the list goes on. Not only do we put all of this on ourselves but we also feel the pressure for all of it to be perfect, or as close to perfect as we can get. In all of the hustle and bustle, we forget the true meaning of the holidays. I won’t get into any religious meanings here because everyone has different beliefs, and I’m not here to discuss religion. To me, the purpose of the holidays is being with our loved ones, cherishing them, appreciating them, and showing them that we care.
Of course there are some things that we just can’t get away from and others that we truly enjoy and don’t want to give up. My challenge to you, however, is to find just 1-2 (or more if your calendar is especially packed) “chores” or invitations that you can cross off your list this year. Really look at your priorities and decide what is most important in your life. I can’t say that I’m not guilty of trying to do too much either, but I am proud to say that I decided this year I’m not going to worry about doing Christmas cards for my friends and family (sorry everyone!) and I had to decline an invitations for a giant cookie exchange. As fun as both of those activities would have been, I had to think about what would give me the most joy while also giving me time to appreciate this time of year and the people I’m choosing to spend it with. I know everyone will be looking to make new years resolutions soon, but why not make an end of the year resolution now to be more in the present and mindful instead of rushing around being a human “doing” instead of a human “being”. For those of you that don’t know much about mindfulness and staying present, I posted Discovery Institute’s December newsletter that talks about that subject last week. You can find it here.